Straight guy in gay sex debate

[withmarcello]

I've been watching a talk show today(Jeremy Kyle here in UK).It featured Jon James,a straight guy doing gay sex scenes and gay escort.I know him personally as he's done a gay sex scene for my website and he was a good performer and did one of the best sex scenes I've filmed.The debate in the show was,can a straight guy have sex with a man,doesn't it make him bi or gay?Jon insists that he is a 100% heterosexual.What do you think?
http://www.withmarcello.com

[Cleo]

I clean the toilets in my home but it doesn't make me a janitor.

[Greenguy]

If you like cock and pussy, you're bi (shemales not included)

[sue-fl]

I'm thinking the same as Greenie.

If you have sex with males and females you are bisexual.

[stuveltje]

Originally Posted by withmarcello

guy doing gay sex scenes and gay escort.I know him personally as he's done a gay sex scene for my website and he was a good performer and did one of the best sex scenes I've filmed.The debate in the show was,can a straight guy have sex with a man,doesn't it make him bi or gay?Jon insists that he is a 100% heterosexual.What do you think?
http://www.withmarcello.com

Now does he know what heterosexual means? definitly bi...if he likes pussy also.But if he has more sex with guys then girls (what i expect, because he does gay scenes and gay excort)...then i would say gay and he is still doubting his sexuality.

[Mr Exotic]

The dude has gotta be bi. I know personally if I was about to attempt to fuck some other man's ass my dick would go into hiding never to be seen again.

Here is some insider knowledge, haha. My wife likes to try to fuck with me and give me a boner before family gatherings trying to make me walk in with a hard on, she thinks its fucking hilarious watching me try to hide it. We'll be pulling up in the driveway and every once in a while she'll grab at my cock trying to get me hard and embarassed. I sit in the car for about 10 seconds thinking of a gay facial cumshot on some gay site I just made and it always does the trick, haha.

[pc]

Originally Posted by Mr Exotic

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Here is some insider knowledge, haha. My wife likes to try to fuck with me and give me a boner before family gatherings trying to make me walk in with a hard on, she thinks its fucking hilarious watching me try to hide it. We'll be pulling up in the driveway and every once in a while she'll grab at my cock trying to get me hard and embarassed. I sit in the car for about 10 seconds thinking of a gay facial cumshot on some gay site I just made and it always does the trick, haha.

lol.
You're not gay for sure.

[MeatPounder]

Originally Posted by pclit

lol.
You're not gay for sure.

Actually he is sublimly training himself!

One of these days he will spurt instead of going soft, and then he is lost

[Useless]

Originally Posted by withmarcello

What do you think?

I'd say that he's "straight with a taste for the finer things".

At first, I was going to say that he's clearly bisexual, but I suppose someone might be able to perform for money. I don't know. My own sexuality confuses the hell out of me and I'm still learning to balance my emotional and sexual needs.

I suppose it's probably a more complex psychological debate than I'd be willing to delve in to. I can't at all imagine giving or receiving anal with another man. I certainly wouldn't take it and I doubt that I'd be able to gain an erection if I was the top. But if I woke up to some guy blowing me, depending on my level of shock and his skill level , I probably wouldn't stop him. Does that make me bi? I've never thought to myself, "damn, I wish some guy was sucking me right now," so I don't think that I have any bi-curious tendencies/urges. Would I give head to another guy? I'd have to say no. If I did, it would have to be for a lot of money. At least $10 and/or a couple of beers.

Let me just say that sexuality is a lot more complex than even I give it credit for.

[Bill]

Sex is sex. Orgasms are orgasms.

And sex for money is about money.

Wether you are straight or gay depends on who you fall in love with, not who you fuck.

[Torn Rose]

Originally Posted by Bill

Wether you are straight or gay depends on who you fall in love with, not who you fuck.

Well said.

[Ms Naughty]

Good point Bill.

And classic post Useless.

In theory I could be bi but then again, do labels even matter? I'm happily married but in Berlin I had my rubber glove on ready to join in at the Fisting Club act because one of the girls on stage was very VERY sexy. And I turned to my husband and said "Do you mind if I fist the lesbian?" and he just laughed and nodded.

But I didn't get called up, unfortunately.

[LD]

Originally Posted by grandmascrotum

do labels even matter? .

Labels only mean things in the context of how society defines them. In some societies fucking someone of the same sex labels one as a homosexual, others it's not so rigidly defined. I find the thought of sex with another man pretty gross, but it's probably a learned attitude given the environment that conditioned me.

(fisting makes me nauseated... )

[Greenguy]

What's love got to do with it? Tina wants to know!

[bluebrit]

If you work in a garage up to your armpits in grease and oil all day, that doesn't mean your in love with cars n trucks, your simply doing your job.

If you do bi, gay or lesbian films does that necessarily make you bi, gay or lesbian?

I don't think so but I do think you have to have a hell of an imagination to pull off a gay or bi scene and make it look good if you are straight.

[stuveltje]

oke so how about this, how many people in adult biss, performing themself, they say: i dont do it for the money i do it because i love my job ? (lots say that if they speak the truth) so there is some love involved, so love for what then..they love to have sex with guys, girls, both, etc etc?

[Greenguy]

Originally Posted by bluebrit

If you work in a garage up to your armpits in grease and oil all day, that doesn't mean your in love with cars n trucks, your simply doing your job...

You trying to tell us something?

[DangerDave]

So if I shoot someone dead for money.. I can say I am not a killer.. as long as I don't love it, and just do it for the cash.

Makes sense to me!!


DD

[bluebrit]

Originally Posted by Greenie

You trying to tell us something?

Not really. Although the Bitch did nickname me Freaky Deaky, I'm not 'that' Freaky and my Deaky may get me into all sorts of things but not men

[Jeremy]

Originally Posted by grandmascrotum

And I turned to my husband and said "Do you mind if I fist the lesbian?" and he just laughed and nodded.

Would his answer have been different if you'd said "Do you mind if I fist the straight girl?"

[Jeremy]

Originally Posted by DangerDave

So if I shoot someone dead for money.. I can say I am not a killer.. as long as I don't love it, and just do it for the cash.

Makes sense to me!!


DD

If you make porn sites for money, are you a pornographer?

If it's a sideline and your main job is (I dunno) a miner.... are you a pornographer or a miner?

(BTW - how was your drenching last week mate? Hope you didn't get completely flooded out / blown away etc.)

[Cleo]

This thread so needs pics...

[DangerDave]

Originally Posted by Jeremy

(BTW - how was your drenching last week mate? Hope you didn't get completely flooded out / blown away etc.)

I was right in the middle of it mate..

Tree through the roof, water damage in bathroom and toilet, flooded downstairs 3 times in 4 days... lost carpet, speakers, desks, lounges etc..

.. but it mostly back together now.. just got to do the insurance run-around..

DD

[Jeremy]

Originally Posted by DangerDave

I was right in the middle of it mate..

Tree through the roof, water damage in bathroom and toilet, flooded downstairs 3 times in 4 days... lost carpet, speakers, desks, lounges etc..

.. but it mostly back together now.. just got to do the insurance run-around..

DD

Holy fuck! I saw some of the pics on The Australian of the Gap & of the approaching storm-front - very scary stuff, glad you have insurance & hope it's all fixable.

I don't suppose any hit your catchment areas, did it?

[John-ACWM]

We can all say what we think about this issue and maybe …maybe professionals can say a sure thing. But what that guy does, thinks and feels of girls and boys it’s just his thing. At first look of the matter …he seems bisexual, but who the hell knows nowadays what happens with the world?!