? about being a porn webmistress becoming public knowledge - Page 2

NY Jester · 2007-10-27, 03:06 PM

Well, my start in the biz was a bit different, or maybe not, back in '96 I had just sold a deli business and was sitting around my apartment when the adult bookstore owners across the street from my fathers hobby shop asked what I was doing. When my dad told them nothing, they asked to speak with me and offered me a managers job (more like all around everything job) I said what the hell as the pay was great for what I was doing. From that position, I was able to get into some very high places in the sex sellers biz. I have been to the the factory of Nass-Toys in NYC and sat at a 20 seat conference table with 1000 different dildos and toys hanging on the wall with women demonstrating their uses and in that same factory Id watch Fetish videos being shot. It was all a trip. That being said, its much more of a "hassle" to hide the fact that you run an adult shop than anything I do online. Friends thought it was great cause I always had the latest videos and I became an in house cockbuster rental agency without late fees or charges. My mom was fine with it, and thats all that mattered to me. It was good $$ and she knew I was doing it as a biz.

After the shop sold (that was why I was hired, to bring up profits) I delved into online porn, but I also did non adult web design, so I had the out .." I do web design" and when theyd ask to see my sites I just sent them to my non adult site for my portfolio. I have friends that know I do it, and anyone who I care to tell. but because of my history with the shop, its old hat, and everyone knows that I know porn.

My close family knows, others know I Design web sites. I mean it is what it is and there is $$ to be made, and if people didnt want it we all wouldnt have a job, so its gotta be OK.

J-

munchie · 2007-11-25, 12:55 AM

Haha... funny story here.

Thus far I have been telling my parents and family that I do internet marketing and web design. Unfortunately my dad thinks everyone in life is trying to lie to him and screw him over so he checks up on me incessantly.

I guess the other day he looked up the address of the office and found links to some of the porn sites. |noclue| Oh well... guess the cat's out of the bag now.

All my friends know. They wouldn't be my friends if they were so up tight they didn't approve of what I do. A jobs a job and I happen to luv mine.

Anyone who thinks I'm a skank because of it can kiss my sexy ass.

papagmp · 2007-11-25, 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by munchie

Haha... funny story here.

Thus far I have been telling my parents and family that I do internet marketing and web design. Unfortunately my dad thinks everyone in life is trying to lie to him and screw him over so he checks up on me incessantly.

I guess the other day he looked up the address of the office and found links to some of the porn sites. |noclue| Oh well... guess the cat's out of the bag now.

All my friends know. They wouldn't be my friends if they were so up tight they didn't approve of what I do. A jobs a job and I happen to luv mine.

Anyone who thinks I'm a skank because of it can kiss my sexy ass.

I'ts just a matter of time before he shows up at my door with a shotgun.....

Bobc01 · 2007-11-25, 08:30 AM

Answer the door dressed as a suicide bomber, chances are he won't want to pull the trigger.

LowryBigwood · 2007-11-25, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Bobc01

Answer the door dressed as a suicide bomber, chances are he won't want to pull the trigger.

LOL. I'm glad I wasn't taking a drink when I read this...

tigermom · 2007-11-25, 01:39 PM

My family and in-laws all know and don't care much. It's a cultural thing, maybe, I'm not sure, we're all very secular and liberal, and porn isn't much of an issue. When it comes to friends, specifically people whose kids go to school with my kids, I am a tad more careful. Simply because I want to be the one telling this to my sons, not some kid at school (they're just 4 and 6, so plenty of time

). Some friends do know, others don't. It's not something I shout off the rooftops, as I also don't think it's a huge deal. People are very curious about my business and how I make money on the Internet, but fortunately, I can always talk for hours on the mainstream side of my business

Bobc01 · 2007-11-25, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by LowryBigwood

LOL. I'm glad I wasn't taking a drink when I read this...

Me too or i'd be getting a bill for a keyboard and monitor.

RageCash-Ben · 2007-11-25, 07:32 PM

I am proud of my ability to work from home and earn good money.

If someone doesn't like it then thats just too bad for them

GonZo · 2007-11-27, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by lorsha

My folks can't stand it .. but .. of course my mom loved her new mercedes I gave her for a gift last xmas .......

I have a business credit card which I pay for most of my dining with...

The name of my company is Evil Empire Inc.

WHen they ask I tell people I sell pornography.

Useless · 2007-11-27, 04:18 PM

There was a time that I used to really enjoy telling people what I do online, but not anymore. One of my crazy-fuck neighbors hadn't had his medication one day and began screaming at me and accusing me of stealing his bike. (No papagmp - I did not have sex with that man's bike.) Of the many things he yelled at me in front of my kids was, "I'LL HAVE THE COUNTY D.A. HERE IN AN HOUR AND WE WILL FORCE YOU OUT OF TOWN BECAUSE (long pause) YOU WERE WEARING A PORN SHIRT!!! That's when I realized that I don't want everyone to know. I simply don't have a large enough yard to bury every stupid cocksucker who thinks I'll let him get away with hollering at me in front of my kids.

Saturnin · 2007-11-27, 04:31 PM

My wife is co-owner of the site, and my family does too. Not a big deal, since it brings in extra money. The marketing lessons have helped me with work in the normal world, although sometimes I have to give a roundabout explanation on how I know or come up with things.... usually from having a friend in a far away country who once ran a business...

papagmp · 2007-11-27, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Useless Warrior

There was a time that I used to really enjoy telling people what I do online, but not anymore. One of my crazy-fuck neighbors hadn't had his medication one day and began screaming at me and accusing me of stealing his bike. (No papagmp - I did not have sex with that man's bike.) Of the many things he yelled at me in front of my kids was, "I'LL HAVE THE COUNTY D.A. HERE IN AN HOUR AND WE WILL FORCE YOU OUT OF TOWN BECAUSE (long pause) YOU WERE WEARING A PORN SHIRT!!! That's when I realized that I don't want everyone to know. I simply don't have a large enough yard to bury every stupid cocksucker who thinks I'll let him get away with hollering at me in front of my kids.

- I have a large enough compost in my garden for the both of our needs...... Someone already put a nasty little letter in my neighbor’s mailboxes - that's when I increased the size of the compost.

What bike

trishauptown · 2007-12-11, 07:46 PM

i just try to remember that.....the person judging just has a small mind.

2007-10-27, 03:06 PM	#26
NY Jester ICQ:147079406 Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: RockMEHardplace Posts: 2,996	Well, my start in the biz was a bit different, or maybe not, back in '96 I had just sold a deli business and was sitting around my apartment when the adult bookstore owners across the street from my fathers hobby shop asked what I was doing. When my dad told them nothing, they asked to speak with me and offered me a managers job (more like all around everything job) I said what the hell as the pay was great for what I was doing. From that position, I was able to get into some very high places in the sex sellers biz. I have been to the the factory of Nass-Toys in NYC and sat at a 20 seat conference table with 1000 different dildos and toys hanging on the wall with women demonstrating their uses and in that same factory Id watch Fetish videos being shot. It was all a trip. That being said, its much more of a "hassle" to hide the fact that you run an adult shop than anything I do online. Friends thought it was great cause I always had the latest videos and I became an in house cockbuster rental agency without late fees or charges. My mom was fine with it, and thats all that mattered to me. It was good $$ and she knew I was doing it as a biz. After the shop sold (that was why I was hired, to bring up profits) I delved into online porn, but I also did non adult web design, so I had the out .." I do web design" and when theyd ask to see my sites I just sent them to my non adult site for my portfolio. I have friends that know I do it, and anyone who I care to tell. but because of my history with the shop, its old hat, and everyone knows that I know porn. My close family knows, others know I Design web sites. I mean it is what it is and there is $$ to be made, and if people didnt want it we all wouldnt have a job, so its gotta be OK. J- __________________ The Sexy Side of Porn

2007-11-25, 01:39 PM	#31
tigermom You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 893	My family and in-laws all know and don't care much. It's a cultural thing, maybe, I'm not sure, we're all very secular and liberal, and porn isn't much of an issue. When it comes to friends, specifically people whose kids go to school with my kids, I am a tad more careful. Simply because I want to be the one telling this to my sons, not some kid at school (they're just 4 and 6, so plenty of time ). Some friends do know, others don't. It's not something I shout off the rooftops, as I also don't think it's a huge deal. People are very curious about my business and how I make money on the Internet, but fortunately, I can always talk for hours on the mainstream side of my business __________________ XLEF

2007-11-25, 07:32 PM	#33
RageCash-Ben No offence Apu, but when they were handing out religions you must have been out taking a whizz Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 286	I am proud of my ability to work from home and earn good money. If someone doesn't like it then thats just too bad for them __________________ Meat Cash 8 Week $100 PPS Promo

2007-11-27, 04:18 PM	#35
Useless Certified Nice Person Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Dirty Undies, NY Posts: 11,268	There was a time that I used to really enjoy telling people what I do online, but not anymore. One of my crazy-fuck neighbors hadn't had his medication one day and began screaming at me and accusing me of stealing his bike. (No papagmp - I did not have sex with that man's bike.) Of the many things he yelled at me in front of my kids was, "I'LL HAVE THE COUNTY D.A. HERE IN AN HOUR AND WE WILL FORCE YOU OUT OF TOWN BECAUSE (long pause) YOU WERE WEARING A PORN SHIRT!!! That's when I realized that I don't want everyone to know. I simply don't have a large enough yard to bury every stupid cocksucker who thinks I'll let him get away with hollering at me in front of my kids. __________________ Click here to purchase a bridge I'm selling.

2007-12-11, 07:46 PM	#38
trishauptown Rock stars ... is there anything they don't know? Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 16	i just try to remember that.....the person judging just has a small mind. __________________ TrishaUptown.com NOW LIVE at That One Progam

2007-11-25, 12:55 AM	#27
munchie If something goes wrong at the plant, blame the guy who can't speak English Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 33	Haha... funny story here. Thus far I have been telling my parents and family that I do internet marketing and web design. Unfortunately my dad thinks everyone in life is trying to lie to him and screw him over so he checks up on me incessantly. I guess the other day he looked up the address of the office and found links to some of the porn sites. \|noclue\| Oh well... guess the cat's out of the bag now. All my friends know. They wouldn't be my friends if they were so up tight they didn't approve of what I do. A jobs a job and I happen to luv mine. Anyone who thinks I'm a skank because of it can kiss my sexy ass.

2007-11-25, 08:30 AM	#29
Bobc01 Banned Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Hell Posts: 817	Answer the door dressed as a suicide bomber, chances are he won't want to pull the trigger.

2007-11-27, 04:31 PM	#36
Saturnin A woman is like beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one! Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Edge of the Universe Posts: 53	My wife is co-owner of the site, and my family does too. Not a big deal, since it brings in extra money. The marketing lessons have helped me with work in the normal world, although sometimes I have to give a roundabout explanation on how I know or come up with things.... usually from having a friend in a far away country who once ran a business...