The Doctors Just Gave MrMaryLou 1-3 Months To Live :( - Page 2

Preacher · 2011-01-06, 01:27 AM

MML, I don't come by the board much anymore but you are always in my thoughts. I am deeply sorry to hear this news.

Mr Spock · 2011-01-06, 06:17 AM

sorry to hear that

spookyx · 2011-01-06, 08:41 AM

keep fighting it MML big hugs from me.

Simon · 2011-01-06, 08:51 AM

I've been back to this thread several times yesterday and today, but couldn't make myself accept what I'd read enough to reply.

Harry ... stay strong my friend, you're in my thoughts all the time and if there's any possibility for a better outcome I very much wish that for you.

.

terry · 2011-01-06, 08:58 AM

I too cannot express myself right now. Im really sorry to hear this.

RedCherry · 2011-01-06, 11:34 AM

I am so sorry Harry, I wish the outcome had been better. Cancer took both my parents, and many of the people on my mother's side of the family.

One thing I want to share is LOOK for alternatives. Maybe this can help you. I was sitting across from a couple that were talking about their friend had stage 4 brain cancer and was given the prognosis of 2 years with chemo, 5 without. She chose neither, and went on an Alkaline Diet for cancer. They said she went in for an MRI last month, and with the exception of some scarring, there was no evidence of the cancer, and it has been 3 years.

I don't know if it will help you, but it sure can't hurt at this point. I would do some googling and see if this is something you could try, and if there are any homeopaths or naturalpaths near you that are familiar with this treatment. Cancer cannot exist in an Alkaline environment.

My father had an appointment to go to a center for alternative treatments for his mesothelioma and died of a heart attack before he could. Don't wait, prove the doctors wrong!

Mike-mijen · 2011-01-06, 11:56 AM

Wow..this sucks...

Pagan · 2011-01-06, 05:12 PM

Damn damn damn damn damn!! I am so very stunned beyond belief. Just like Simon, I have had to go back and read this over to even try to understand this. Losing friends just hurts so much, and there is literally nothing we can do.

One of my mainstream groups uses the virtual candles at Gratefullness.Org at times like this. You can leave messages, much like a guestbook. The candles stay lit for 48 hours. I did set one up for MML - http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...l=eng&gi=GGMML. There is just soooo little we can do but show our support.

hashbury · 2011-01-06, 09:18 PM

I also read this thread over and over and over and just do not believe it. I dont have many friends but I sure as hell considered harry one. We might not have met in person, but I feel like he is a part of me.
I used to hang out in the chatroom and he would show me the errors on my freesites and give me a chance to fix them before reviewing them. He would tell me better ways to make my freesites to attract more sales.

Lately I have been so busy just trying to make ends meet I have not been able to get in the chatroom and hang out. Even when I saw the post spooky made about no one being in the chatroom I still couldnt make time to go in there.
I finally started making some time to go to on the bench, but that was when harry started cancelling them.
I cant even describe how bad I feel now.

Useless · 2011-01-06, 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Pagan

One of my mainstream groups uses the virtual candles at Gratefullness.Org at times like this. You can leave messages, much like a guestbook. The candles stay lit for 48 hours. I did set one up for MML - http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...l=eng&gi=GGMML. There is just soooo little we can do but show our support.

Thank you, Pagan. I just lit a candle. I find myself struggling with this more today than yesterday.

docholly · 2011-01-07, 12:58 AM

i am just stunned. But on an up note I did talk with Harry tonight -- I am ever the optimist even in the most dire of situations and just talking to him gave me a little peace of mind.

I intend on bugging him to the end...

sadly but with love.

JustRobert · 2011-01-07, 01:46 AM

Thanks again to Pagan, I lit a candle as well.

GonZo · 2011-01-07, 08:53 AM

Horrible
Another very nice guy in a sometimes grubby business.
I dont know what to say.

buttster · 2011-01-07, 07:06 PM

MML you hang in there, these doctors are wrong lots of times, lousy fucking news for one of the good guys. I lit a candle for you to big guy!!!

RedCherry · 2011-01-07, 07:55 PM

Thanks Pagan, I lit a candle too for him. I keep thinking about you on and off all day, hoping that you can find some kind of alternative that will reverse the cancer's course.

Ms Naughty · 2011-01-07, 09:02 PM

I'm so sad to hear this. Harry you are in our thoughts xx

oldbrad · 2011-01-07, 11:22 PM

Haven't posted yet either because I don't know what to say. I wish you the best.

In the past year I have known 2 different people with stage 4 cancers and given three months that are still alive and doing as well as possible. Modern medicine can be a great thing and miracles can happen and I hope that is the outcome for you as well.

Jel · 2011-01-09, 05:50 AM

Ah damn

Don't know what to say really, but if you read this thread MML, maybe you can take some strength from what oldbrad has posted in the reply before this one.

bluemoney · 2011-01-09, 12:12 PM

I too am at a loss for words. But I do know I fucking hate Cancer, It has robbed me of numerous friends and relatives.

Thomas · 2011-01-11, 06:17 AM

That sucks!

Lungcancer killed my mom

/Thomas

h3ads.com · 2011-01-11, 08:01 AM

I am really sorry man and I understand your feelings I have my dad now dying with Cancer anytime. Very sad

Sumrpal · 2011-01-11, 05:12 PM

I am so sorry to hear this. I have well met MrMaryLou and remember him as one of the good ones. In the last 3 years I have lost 5 family & friends, including my Dad, to cancer. I hate it. I hate it with all my heart.

God bless, Harry

Evil Chris · 2011-01-12, 01:18 PM

Really sorry to hear this.
I hope you're surrounded by loved ones.

DIVAD3 · 2011-01-12, 01:52 PM

This is very sad news indeed! I have been off line now for several months except for acessing the web through my phone. Therefore I have not taken the time to read much of the board over the past months. This sad news is the first of what I am reading from logging in. As someone has mentioned prior. It leaves one w/o words to say, and in a state of aww.

sue-fl · 2011-01-17, 12:43 PM

I'm so sorry MML and so saddened by the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and I wish you the best. To MML's family and friends I'm so sorry and my heart goes out to all of you.

2011-01-06, 01:27 AM	#26
Preacher There's Xanax in my thurible! Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Wherever they screw on my head Posts: 2,441	MML, I don't come by the board much anymore but you are always in my thoughts. I am deeply sorry to hear this news. __________________ NSCash * This Depraved World

2011-01-06, 08:51 AM	#29
Simon That which does not kill us, will try, try again. Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Conch Republic Posts: 5,150	I've been back to this thread several times yesterday and today, but couldn't make myself accept what I'd read enough to reply. Harry ... stay strong my friend, you're in my thoughts all the time and if there's any possibility for a better outcome I very much wish that for you. . __________________ "If you're happy and you know it, think again." -- Guru Pitka

2011-01-06, 08:58 AM	#30
terry You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Montreal Posts: 5,883	I too cannot express myself right now. Im really sorry to hear this. __________________ Stop That 9 To 5 Go Green Grocery Store

2011-01-06, 11:34 AM	#31
RedCherry Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most. Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Middle of the Desert, Pahrump, NV Posts: 3,187	I am so sorry Harry, I wish the outcome had been better. Cancer took both my parents, and many of the people on my mother's side of the family. One thing I want to share is LOOK for alternatives. Maybe this can help you. I was sitting across from a couple that were talking about their friend had stage 4 brain cancer and was given the prognosis of 2 years with chemo, 5 without. She chose neither, and went on an Alkaline Diet for cancer. They said she went in for an MRI last month, and with the exception of some scarring, there was no evidence of the cancer, and it has been 3 years. I don't know if it will help you, but it sure can't hurt at this point. I would do some googling and see if this is something you could try, and if there are any homeopaths or naturalpaths near you that are familiar with this treatment. Cancer cannot exist in an Alkaline environment. My father had an appointment to go to a center for alternative treatments for his mesothelioma and died of a heart attack before he could. Don't wait, prove the doctors wrong! __________________ Our 3D Comics and Props on Renderotica

2011-01-06, 05:12 PM	#33
Pagan Perverted Empress Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Finland Posts: 4,646	Damn damn damn damn damn!! I am so very stunned beyond belief. Just like Simon, I have had to go back and read this over to even try to understand this. Losing friends just hurts so much, and there is literally nothing we can do. One of my mainstream groups uses the virtual candles at Gratefullness.Org at times like this. You can leave messages, much like a guestbook. The candles stay lit for 48 hours. I did set one up for MML - http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...l=eng&gi=GGMML. There is just soooo little we can do but show our support. __________________ Submit Here!

2011-01-06, 06:17 AM	#27
Mr Spock You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Vulcan Posts: 695	sorry to hear that

2011-01-06, 08:41 AM	#28
spookyx Kodak Ghosts Run Amok Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Hobbs End Posts: 1,718	keep fighting it MML big hugs from me.

2011-01-06, 11:56 AM	#32
Mike-mijen What do you mean, my birth certificate expired? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Fla Posts: 995	Wow..this sucks...

2011-01-06, 09:18 PM	#34
hashbury My name is hashbury not assburry Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Tampa Posts: 1,125	I also read this thread over and over and over and just do not believe it. I dont have many friends but I sure as hell considered harry one. We might not have met in person, but I feel like he is a part of me. I used to hang out in the chatroom and he would show me the errors on my freesites and give me a chance to fix them before reviewing them. He would tell me better ways to make my freesites to attract more sales. Lately I have been so busy just trying to make ends meet I have not been able to get in the chatroom and hang out. Even when I saw the post spooky made about no one being in the chatroom I still couldnt make time to go in there. I finally started making some time to go to on the bench, but that was when harry started cancelling them. I cant even describe how bad I feel now. __________________ Sig Goes Here!

2011-01-07, 12:58 AM	#36
docholly Nothing funnier than the ridiculous faces you people make mid-coitus Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Sin-City USA Posts: 4,973	i am just stunned. But on an up note I did talk with Harry tonight -- I am ever the optimist even in the most dire of situations and just talking to him gave me a little peace of mind. I intend on bugging him to the end... sadly but with love. __________________ Support Indie Porn Sites OMGoddess You know you need some Bling!!

2011-01-07, 01:46 AM	#37
JustRobert Bow Ties Are Cool Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: California Posts: 9,379	Thanks again to Pagan, I lit a candle as well. __________________ Submit Your Galleries To The Porn Luv Network!

2011-01-07, 08:53 AM	#38
GonZo You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Atlanta,Ga Posts: 893	Horrible Another very nice guy in a sometimes grubby business. I dont know what to say.

2011-01-07, 07:06 PM	#39
buttster Hey, can you take the wheel for a second, I have to scratch my self in two places at once Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Central California Valley Posts: 181	MML you hang in there, these doctors are wrong lots of times, lousy fucking news for one of the good guys. I lit a candle for you to big guy!!! __________________ The Tit Directory

2011-01-07, 07:55 PM	#40
RedCherry Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most. Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Middle of the Desert, Pahrump, NV Posts: 3,187	Thanks Pagan, I lit a candle too for him. I keep thinking about you on and off all day, hoping that you can find some kind of alternative that will reverse the cancer's course. __________________ Our 3D Comics and Props on Renderotica

2011-01-07, 09:02 PM	#41
Ms Naughty old enough to be Grandma Scrotum Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Australia Posts: 1,408	I'm so sad to hear this. Harry you are in our thoughts xx __________________ Promote Bright Desire

2011-01-07, 11:22 PM	#42
oldbrad It is better to watch things then to do them Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: oregon Posts: 485	Haven't posted yet either because I don't know what to say. I wish you the best. In the past year I have known 2 different people with stage 4 cancers and given three months that are still alive and doing as well as possible. Modern medicine can be a great thing and miracles can happen and I hope that is the outcome for you as well. __________________ Help MrMaryLou Link to his Chubby TGP & Chubby Links on your sites and blogs.

2011-01-09, 05:50 AM	#43
Jel I'm the only guy in the world who has to wake up to have a nightmare Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: London, United Kingdom Posts: 1,895	Ah damn Don't know what to say really, but if you read this thread MML, maybe you can take some strength from what oldbrad has posted in the reply before this one.

2011-01-09, 12:12 PM	#44
bluemoney Shimmering Silver Head Of Wisdom Looking At Me! Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Chronic Town Posts: 2,024	I too am at a loss for words. But I do know I fucking hate Cancer, It has robbed me of numerous friends and relatives. __________________ Milf Porn For The Masses

2011-01-11, 06:17 AM	#45
Thomas With $10,000, we'd be millionaires! We could buy all kinds of useful things like ... love! Join Date: May 2004 Location: Stockholm, Sweden Posts: 319	That sucks! Lungcancer killed my mom /Thomas __________________ I like big boobs, do you?

2011-01-11, 08:01 AM	#46
h3ads.com Rock stars ... is there anything they don't know? Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Buenos Aires ~ Argentina Posts: 19	I am really sorry man and I understand your feelings I have my dad now dying with Cancer anytime. Very sad __________________ Sales @ H3ads.com

2011-01-11, 05:12 PM	#47
Sumrpal If something's hard to do, then it's not worth doing Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Canada Posts: 241	I am so sorry to hear this. I have well met MrMaryLou and remember him as one of the good ones. In the last 3 years I have lost 5 family & friends, including my Dad, to cancer. I hate it. I hate it with all my heart. God bless, Harry

2011-01-12, 01:18 PM	#48
Evil Chris My eyes are up here. Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Montreal Posts: 913	Really sorry to hear this. I hope you're surrounded by loved ones. __________________ ICQ 342827

2011-01-12, 01:52 PM	#49
DIVAD3 I'm going to the backseat of my car with the woman I love, and I won't be back for TEN MINUTES Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Up-Sate NY ! Posts: 79	This is very sad news indeed! I have been off line now for several months except for acessing the web through my phone. Therefore I have not taken the time to read much of the board over the past months. This sad news is the first of what I am reading from logging in. As someone has mentioned prior. It leaves one w/o words to say, and in a state of aww.

2011-01-17, 12:43 PM	#50
sue-fl You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: May 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 2,837	I'm so sorry MML and so saddened by the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and I wish you the best. To MML's family and friends I'm so sorry and my heart goes out to all of you.