Isn't that how most of them are?

Well i like to think the one i promote doesn't and there are a few others that are more honest than the notorious sites.

You can usually see by the user reviews by doing a google search but apart from that the sites they support like torrent and tube sites which i've seen fling and a few others.

I actually, have those as well, but only have a few scattered links right now to them. SO you cant go by me.

A good way to check out a dating program is sign up for a free profile yourself, go to the upgrade page and see what the payment options are.

If there's an option to pay by buying credits then find out if you get paid for those, with the sex matching and new member mails, are there advertisements in them?
If so you'll find you won't get paid for those.

Last thing do you get paid for renewals?