Here is a link to Victoria's Obituary

http://www.herkimertelegram.com/obit...Levita-Barnett

Also In lieu of flowers, as an expression of sympathy, please consider memorial contributions to the Herkimer County Humane Society. http://www.herkhumane.org/

sorry jim
My condolences

My sincere condolences.

I recently lost My Mom to cancer. My sincere condolences.

My deepest condolences to Jim and his family..


I was in hospital again so couldn't respond earlier, I am sorry.

Thanks for the info MML

Can someone see a place on that Humane website to send donations? I looked all over it (made me even sadder) but couldn't find anything other than their hours and what they needed. I've tried calling them for the last hour and the line goes directly to busy. |cry|

There are a couple of numbers on the Obituary to contact about the donations.

I just wanted to stop by and thank everyone. When Vickie finally went, it was a relief to us all. During the last month, every waking moment was in pain.

I have no idea when I will post again :(
My heart is truly broken.:(

Cancer is something very hard to deal with. Jim, wish you the best, I know this must be hard times for you.

Sorry to hear this news, for sure she is in a better place now. Our thoughts are with you.

Jim, I'm very sad to receive this news. Victoria was a wonderful lady and I know she will be deeply missed by everyone who knew her.

My most sincere condolences go out to you and your family.

Chris

Our deepest condolences to Jim, his family and friends

I am so sorry to hear of your loss Jim, my heart goes out to you and your family

We are very sorry. Our deepest condolences to Jim and his family

Wow. :(

Deepest condolences Jim from myself and my partner Electra.

Vicky was indeed one of the friendliest and warmest of people in this industry. And, along with yourself, a true pioneer of this industry. We won't let her memory fade.

Take care, good buddy.

Hary (Dravyk)

man no words for Jims loss can make this better - she was a sweetheart - My thoughts are with you Jim.

My sincerest and deepest condolences.

It's been years since I've thought of Jim and Victoria. Sometimes life does that, you lose communication with people. I wasn't close to either Jim or Victoria, but that didn't stop them both 10 years ago in Miami to reach out and talk to me about our industry, and give a noob advice.

I'm sorry for your loss Jim. For everyone's loss now that Victoria has passed on. My thoughts are with you, and your loved ones at this time.

My condolences Jim. :(

Sorry Ive just heard about this.
I know she will be missed.

Jim, as with my sister's death to cancer, I know how hard that last month truely is.

My most sincere condolences to you Jim, and to all that love her.


Ben

Jim, Myself and Ellisa wish you and your family all the best.

It is sad when you lose someone close to you but to know she isn't in pain anymore is a truly happy moment too.


I wish you all the best my friend! We will all be here when you return. Take your time!

Tanker

Oh fuck Jim. That's terrible. Stay stong man.

If there is anything I can do to help, just let me know.

Jay

Jim I am so sorry. I know how hard this is :(

Oh my god, that is so shocking... condolence to Jim's and his family... this is so sad...

Thanks a lot again guys. This thread and the "Moment of Silence" thread has meant so much to me. I do sneak in and look at them everyday. Also thank you to those that have sent cards with checks for the Humane Society and just donated straight to them.

I have to admit that I have been on a bender for the last 2 weeks. The problem with me and a bender is...I really don' care for the taste of alcohol. :) But, I have gotten used to Johnny Walker Blue. :)

Every night I feel like I will be ready for real work the next day and then when I wake up, I see thinks of Vickie's and I just go back into a depression. I am trying to come back but it is so hard. Just having the simple routine of coming in my office in the morning and having Vickie yell up coffee is ready not happening anymore, rips me apart.

I am so lucky that my sister in law has decided to stay here for as long as I want her to. I really am bad at taking care of animals and as you all know, "we have dogs". For the past 3-1/2 months, she has been our angel. And, somehow I don't think I will ever be able to repay her for all she has done. Of course free room and board and some cash has to help. :) The best part is that she is 100% Lesbian so her and I staying with each other doesn't make it weird to anyone in our family.

Our children are doing OK. A couple of them are taking it really hard and are making some bad decisions. But, I think I may have stopped that.

Anyway, I am still going to take some time to get back to normal. Construction has started on our bar room where Vickie's Bike will hang from the wall forever. I am beginning construction on my living room sometime today..I think.

I do feel lucky because there are so many people that never find the love of their life. I have and now she is gone :( But, I had her for over 20 years. I will never be in a real relationship again because nobody will ever be able to compare to my wonderful wife. Not saying I won't go out on dates..just no real relationships.

Ah Jim, my heart just breaks for you.

I don't think there are any rules for grieving. Just do what you gotta do and take as long as you need. We're all thinking of you.

Sorry it's so hard on your Jim.

There is no right or wrong way to grieve, and everybody does it different.

Your loss is a really hard one, I wish I had magic words but I don't. I hope with time your heart won't hurt as bad. |thumb

My deepest sympathies to Jim and the family. I am really sorry to hear this news.

My heart goes out to him and his family

I know I am almost a month late but somehow I missed this sad thread...

I am so sorry to hear about the love of your life.

F**K I hate cancer, took my mom away last year.

Regards
Thomas

Just saw this thread. I'm so sorry Jim, Greenie. Prayers and hope atcha.

Thank you everyone. I really do appreciate this thread. But, now that I am trying to move on, this is a reminder.

I hope nobody minds but I am going to close the thread now.
Thank you again....