Greenguy's Board - My first Adult Website, needing help.

Hey guys, I'm an experienced webmaster with no experience in the Adult Web industry so I'm looking for some serious guidance here. I'm writing this message with the simplest intentions, to get help, please don't make me feel like an idiot for asking questions that are probably very silly to you guys with plenty of Experience.

Ok, I'm having a horrible time trying to drive traffic to my site, what I really need is probably a small time website to trade a link with. My site is only generating approx 100 unique's a day which is insane for being up already for a month. I didn't think Adult Websites were going to be THIS restrictive when it came to advertising.

What is the best way for a BRAND NEW site to get some much needed traffic as it pertains to Adult based sites? I can't google, I can't yahoo. Most of the BIG BOYS don't want to hard link with me because of my lack of traffic right now so what options do I have?

If you want to help a newbie out and post a link on your site I would be VERY greatful, and of course I'm greatful for any advice. Thanks.

My site is listed in my SIG thanks.