"What If Your Wife Were A Porn Star?"
 

http://www.details.com/sex-relations...re-a-porn-star

Bill describes his sex life with Sky as vanilla; "We schedule sex," he says. But that bothers him less than his wife's habitually telling colleagues she's "in a relationship" rather than married. "She hardly ever wears her wedding ring, even off-set," Bill says. "Why be ashamed of being married?" Sky insists that it's not a matter of shame. "I don't want to get typecast as a MILF," she says.

Otherwise sanguine as Bill seems about their arrangement, he shows some discomfort when he explains that his family doesn't know what his wife does for a living and admits that he doesn't go out of his way to tell coworkers about her occupation. At his previous job, a colleague saw a picture of Sky on Bill's desk and recognized her. "He said, 'Hey, that's Ryder Sky,'" Bill says. "I said, 'Yeah, she's my wife.' He said, 'You're a lucky guy.'" This hangs in the air for a beat before he continues. Being a porn star is what Sky wants. She makes good money, she doesn't get bossed around by a suit, and she has time to attend college (majoring in women's studies). He isn't going to stand in her way. "I want her to be happy. And it's a turn-on, in a way. On the downside, though, there are guys having sex with your wife."

But rather than avoid seeing her work, Bill watches Sky's movies religiously and stealthily posts positive sentiments on porn sites, occasionally attacking critics. "I don't look at it as sex," he says. "I look at it as a guy with his dick in my wife, but they're working and it's not emotional. She never orgasms in porn. That's for us. If it happened on the set, it would be a little weird."

i don't know what to say about this. at some point i pity him.

I think it would be easier to not watch it..unless like me, you have a voyeur tendency. But screw that planned sex stuff. Let it happen naturally.

I have seen many reports that only pornstar actors and actresses are being married seriously. Only few reports about marrying a pornstar. yeah I agree with you buddy I pity him also.

That just struck me as funny....

I've been trying to get my wife into porn for almost 20 years now!

Well... he has a lot of good sex, but I'd would not let my wife to do porn. Do they plan children? How do they think their kids will do at school at age 16?

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I pity the pitiers for their hypocritical double standards. My wife of 23 years got me into porn. We both did videos. We had good days and bad days like any relationship. The only couples that are successful in porn are the non jealous open relationship possibly also swinger types. And trust me, there is nothing to pity about those folks because, they make reality of what others hold only as fantasies, and they are enjoying life in their own special way. Doesn't need to be judged on moral grounds - should be judged on the ethics of honesty and integrity to be fair and truthful.