Yep, I have a distinctly separate recip table for my for women sites. And I never bother with linklists that don't have a for women category. You won't get targetted traffic... although it may be that you could get a few stray desparate women searching through the "misc" category.
Here's our list of specific 4women linklists plus the ones who have a proper category:
http://www.purpledollars.com/links.html
I run
Ms Naughty and will be glad to list anything you submit
