Here's the thing (and I am assuming that part of this post is directed at me) I haven't sent out rejection emails since I've been posting on a board. I got tired of it for many of the reasons that have already been posted & then some.
Once I had a regular posting place (Condom, BTW) I simply told people that didn't get listed to stop by the board & ask. My thinking on this has always been that if you do it in public on a board, it might help someone else with the same problem.
I have been thinking of turning on the automated rejection email thing, but I'm not there yet
