OK, here's what I decided to do. I enabled the email function on my scripts. You'll get an email when your site is added, and you may or may not get one if it's rejected. I have the option of sending an email at the time of review.
If I rejected your site for a simple, honest mistake, I'll let you know. At that time you can fix the problem and reply to the rejection email letting me know it's fixed. I'll add your site to the next day's update. That way you don't have to wait forever and a day for you site to some back up for review.
If you are a "Sucking Sucker" (to borrow a phrase
), you probably won't get an email. These folks include auto submitters, template whores, clueless site builders, and my nextdoor neighbor, who is a bitch, but that's another story.