Hey and welcome, Tony
I'm not the site review specialist by any means. But here are a couple of things that come to mind when I look at your tgp.
I do not mean this harshly, but it is near chaotic to my eye. Almost like an assault of too many choices, if that makes sense. Everything from the warning to toplist banners are all on the same page.
And speaking of pages, you've got a sidewise scroll on 800x600.
As I scroll down, I see alot of free hosted goth galleries. Nothing really wrong with that, except you are going to see the same goth galleries on every site that has a goth category. That aside, them having top spot on your site confuses me. I'm assuming since you are a photographer that you and your parter have shot content. Where are the galleries that are advertising your pay area? Those would, I think, tend to make you more sales than all the sponsor stuff.
I also think on the altarnude page (free site??) you are giving way, way too much stuff away. Tease them, then make them pay to see that stuff.
The huge plus is that your work is beautiful. The lighting on the batch with the chick with the blade is incredible!!!
As has been pointed out in another thread, there are some tgp'ers here, and most all of them have more knowledge than I do. I'm sure some of them will give you some good advice.