hi zack2004
There are only a few webmasters building sites for women at the moment, although we (myself and 'grandmascrotum') are aiming to address this issue in an upcoming 'For Women' webmaster promotion. I have added your site to our list of sites that have for women categories (on our webmaster resource site)
http://www.purpledollars.com/links.html
As far as what women want to see, its probably not going to be "male strippers getting handjobs and hummers from wacky women at a club or party". We have a number of articles here
http://www.purpledollars.com/resources.html
that may give you a better idea of what female surfers are looking for.
As far as filling up your category, if you want bulk submissions I can organise that
You will also find some 'For Women' paysites (including of course my own - see my sig) offer a range of hosted sites and galleries.
Feel free to pm me or contact me by icq if you have any questions
