For women, it's:
Jilling
Bisecting the triangle
Buttering up the whisker biscuit
Beating around the bush
Cleaving it to Beaver
Composing on the single key piano
Double clicking your mouse
Fiddling the bean
Groping the grotto
Paddling the pink canoe
Parting the Red Sea
Quim slippin'
Two finger taco tango
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