I got nothing to add to the general concensus of ol Jimbo...think that's been made pretty damn clear. Geez, what a Tool...guys like him make us all look bad
That said, it's very refreshing to see that the vast majority of us here are of a similar mindset
The key to what we do...what makes it okay...or even BETTER than okay...makes it a GOOD thing...is that it's always CONSENSUAL. And it's always about PLEASURE.
Admittedly, the pleasure of some is vastly different than the pleasure of others...which is where consent comes into play.
If consenting ADULTS want to do it...it's all good
Thanks folks...given the way this thread started...it's very cool that...at least speaking for myself...I get a very positive outlook from the responses

to one and all...except Jimbo of course!