Oh and about the sites popping up, I had no control over that (which I can see now is just way too dumb), so maybe the site you are referring to that pops-up has payed some money to the exit pop-up sponsor I used to get popped O_o. I dunno, and it's not my business really
Once again, I hope you will reconsider and I hope that no other Link lists will begin black listing me for this, my site should only pop 1 popup now on my subindexes (please tell me if it doesn't so I can fix it!) and that page only has some links to sponsors