How do you know these sex acts are real? Have you seen them? Do you know someone who regularly knocks their partner out during sex? Do you know someone who has punched a woman in the eye after a blowjob, just so he can admire the pretty colours of the bruise?
I do not think what I'm saying is sexist at all. As I said, I've spoken with a woman who was into all sorts of violent (consensual) stuff, and if she wants to do that it's fine, I'm not denying her freedom or saying she shouldn't do it.
What I am saying is that I personally find it hard to put myself in the place of a woman who would enjoy *non consensual violent sex*, and that I find the idea of that kind of sex to be disturbing.
There's a difference between personally finding something disturbing and saying that it is wrong. It's my right to find things disturbing.
And as I said before, if you read that list of "disturbing sex acts" you would see that they are written from a male point of view, and they're all about being cruel to a woman WITHOUT HER CONSENT, for the sole purpose of providing the man with pleasure.
That is completely different from consensual masochistic acts, which, I will repeat, I do not have a problem with (even if they're not my bag).
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And as to true cruelty to women, mental cruelty is a lot worse than physical cruelty.
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I'm not sure where to begin with this. There's a scale now? And again, how do you know?
And are you seriously saying that what I've written about this is somehow worse than the shit on that list?
That me saying that I think our hypothetical woman that enjoys being beaten and raped is somehow going to be offended that I find her behaviour disturbing.
And yes, beaten and raped, because, when I think about this, that's what this conversation is about. It's NOT about consensual masochism, it's about dangerous, cruel, nasty violence and rape.