I'm not a link list that sends out rejection e-mails but I thought I would throw my two drunken cents in.... first off you are not the first submitters to get pissed about not having you sites listed, and you will not be the last...
and I know that having a recip on your site that doesn't list you seems like a big F U at first but if you follow the rules you will get listed a majority of the time... but you are going about rectifying the situation the wrong way here...
this is not a negative comment whatsoever but it is obvious that you haven't been around the link list world very long... the sites you posted didn't follow the link lists rules which causes them not to be listed, and most of the big link lists just don't have the time to explain why the site isn't listed, and they weed through so much crap everyday that they get sick of it and when they see a problem such as way too many outgoing links on the first page, it is an instant delete and if they get 6 submits with the same thing you get blacklisted pretty fast... it is nothing personal but this thread has turned it into that with all the jabbing back and forth...
even most of the link lists posting in this thread that say they send out rejection e-mails ar not going to list those sites when they review them... just my opinion but I would let this thread go, post a new one with the urls of your sites that don't get listed, and ask why (which has been done in this thread somewhat)... it will be a lot more productive for everybody in the long run... and making a submit list based on who sends out rejection e-mails is not a good idea as you will not get the traffic to your sites that you could if you just ask a few questions and for a little bit of help...
and again this is not a negative jab at you at all, but no matter how nice you think your sites look most of the link lists don't really need your submits, they have plenty of submits everyday that they can list instead, whether you believe it or not they really do want to list as many sites as possible, and if you build up a trusted relationship with sites then thingss get a whole lot easier also
