Reggie.. ya seem like a nice guy, so I will try to 'splain some of this stuff. Most of the link sites I submit to either copy GreenGuy's rules almost to the letter or are very close. So, if you want link lists to work with you, you have to submit what they want to see. All they are trying to do is give their surfers a list of sites that are of a known quality. Follow the rules and you will get listed.
Most of the linksites have way more than 3 outbound links per page because they don't have any content of their own. They are linklists. Surfers know this and expect it. When they go to a free site, they expect to see some pictures, watch some movies, or read stories. They have to be able to find our stuff easily so that they get excited and click on what we are advertising.
The mouseover part is easy.. I love Cleo's site for the very clear, excellent explanations.. go to
http://www.cleos-porn-links.com/adul...aster-help.php and check it out. If you still have questions, I will do what I can to help ya.
Another thing that you will get gigged on is the hardcore (penetration) on any banner that is in a "public" area. This means your index page. Ditch the counters, too if you want anyone to take you seriously.
Blind links mean just that. Your text says one thing, but you are taken somewhere else. When I looked at your site, I wasn't sure if it was a paysite or free site or link list. When I clicked on Join Now, it took me to some other paysite. The surfer has no clue where he is going because your mouseover has no return on it. If I was a surfer, I would be leaving your site either totally mad or confused.
If you look at a lot of the paysites today, you will see nothing but text and the standard adult warning. Once you click "Enter", then you are into an adult area. If you are trying to submit as a freesite, there are some great tutorials out there - Check this board and Netpond. I saw enough stuff there for about 20 free sites.