Jim...if this is any comfort to you, I had toxaemia of pregnancy with all three kids. The third time it was the worst. I was totally bedridden and only allowed up to go to the doctor's three times a week for blood tests...to determine if they'd have to "take the baby" to save my life.
The "baby" in question is now 23-years-old; off-the-charts IQ; deadly wicked sense of humor; *employed,* save us all!...and due to her time helping me with my sites back in the day, one of the few non-adult site designers who understands "loading time."
None of the pregnancies were fun, but they all resulted in healthy babies.
Hang in there, Jim.