Life is about choices. Each of us make them every day. You can listen to positive people that try to help or you can listen to negative people who have a hidden agenda.
Most of the posters on this board need help and there are some willing to help them. Others want to shut you out to keep more of the pie for themselves.
The people that are making good money usually help people that are trying and appreciate their help. It's your life and your choice who to listen to.
Good Luck
