you know I actually thought of adding green guys, penisbots, and wetplace to all of my submission pages because I kept finding random LL's that said they wouldnt list unless their link was next to those. I never tried it and after reading this i am thankful
One thing I do though is once a month go through and find the links bringing in heavy traffic (still learning who all the big LL's are) and try to seperate them / split them up - this way everyone benifits and Im sure the larger LL's dont mind. I understand wanting to be listed with them but at the same point nobody wants a recip table with 100 links on it - at least I dont think so.