the whole thing was spooky but it fixed itself tonite so i am happy. i thought it might be a router problem and it might have been but i could goto all sites but my own. but when i disconnected the router i did get to them, but then i had no phone so i thougt i would have to do something like reconfigure the router tonite but got home and everything is fine. i have no idea what happend nor does my host or isp it is like some kind of black majic lol. or your third suggestion. i am not sure about the country since my host uses multiple servers for saftey he is in thailand and also, co-hosted in texas so if there is a problem in either area the other server will take over. i just hope it doesnt happen again it was a real pain in the ass havent been able to do anything for a few days. it might have been some kind of dns error since he did do a server upgrade this past week but i was the only one who couldnt get to the sites.
