Getting quality hosting and asking this question on the board is the right start. You may also want to post some of your work. Maybe your long term goal isn't to be working for someone else but many of us are always looking for new talent and are willing to help out an honest webmaster in need.
1. I would contact all of your major traffic sources and explain the situation. Many may allow you to resubmit.
2. Get a new domain and plan on doing twice the work.
3. Hand in there and don't listen to people telling you to hang yourself. Honest hard work seems to put always put food the table.
4. Ask Clea to show her tits. Maybe it's not as helpful as parying but it's more fun
5. Visit this baord a few times a day. A lot of people are in business because of GG boards.