I think Alex and me have had this discussion before. LOL
Different places have different rules. It is their list, their rules, their traffic. If you want to get listed you need to follow their rules. Doesn't matter if it makes sense or not, people have the right to run their list anyway they want.
Read their rules and if they are acceptable then submit to them. If you don't like their rules then don't submit to them, but don't ask them to change their rules to suit your site building ways.
As for this thread…
I don't give a shit what you name your warning page. Numbers irk me, but as long as there are other lists also sending traffic to the page then it really doesn't matter to me. Seeing my recip on the same page as the largest of the large link lists gets me wet every time.