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I'd forget Alexa. The more sites you make the better 'feel' you'll get for where the different LL's should go. Most of the larger ones want to be grouped with each other so make say 75% of your recip grid large LL's and fill up with with smaller ones.
If a site doesn't list you, ask why politely. Some of the larger LL's are overflowing with submits so you need them more than they need you! and they might need a gentle nudge so that your name stand out next time.
Cheers
