kit-xxx: First thing I want to offer you is a shovel. Your digging yourself a hole, but bare handed it could take a while. A shovel will allow you to finish the job promptly and move on.
First off, the site you mention
http://www.linkforsex.com/adult-links/webcams.html is listed on Linkster's site has an enter link that doesn't work - click enter, you get the same page back. The exit is, well, interesting.
No windows means no windows. No Popups means no popups. Simple, no?
There are pretty much no link sites that accept new windows on anything, why even go there?
As for the 2257, there are a couple of things. First off, it isn't your 2257, so you are not helping yourself. If you are in the US and attempting to comply with the laws / adjustments as put up, you need to have your own page with your own information on it, as well as a list of others who have provided the content. There is no proof that linking to a sponsors 2257 is going to help you out. From that 2257 page I was able to find my way to the front page of ifriends... 2257 pages are not suppose to have links off.
Good luck.
Alex