Welcome to the wonderful world of free sites
Yea, there are some lists out there with inane/insane rules
Do yourself a favor...take a look at the rules for GreenGuy's Link O Rama. You'll find that by and large, most reputable lists have very similar rules. There may be some nuances, but they should be relatively minor. Think Jugg mentioned...if you can get listed at Greenies site, you can get listed at the vast majority of sites
Yes, there are a few real asshats in the LL game that other folks don't want to be listed with. Fortunately, they're fairly few and far between...so it's not really difficult to build around those restrictions. And I don't think many reputable sites INSIST on being on the same page with other lists.
Many subscribe to the build it and forget it paradigm in free sites. Opinions vary, but usually it's not time effective to go back through old recips. And some sites do take a long time to get to reviews. Hell, I haven't submitted a free site in at least 4 or 5 months...just got some acceptance mails yesterday...lol.
Definitely don't put pics on html. Very few link sites still accept em that way. I happen to accept em at my site, but I'm a dinosaur in many ways
Anyway...that's about all I got. Again, welcome to free sites...you've definitely found the place to be for this segment of the adult biz
