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Originally Posted by Useless Warrior
But Jay, there's no way you could knock him down a notch on this board. He's never had any love here. My qualm with this thread is the fact that you dropped in, started two drama theads, then walked out. No updates, no anything. Then I hear through the grapevine that all is forgiven and that you two are sharing recipes while sipping lattes at Starbucks. (Slight exageration for effect.) I don't know - maybe it's because I am not a forgiving guy, but I firmly believe that if you call someone out on the boards - unless you are proven wrong in some manner, then that person is shit for eternity. Of course, I'm told (quite often) that I should be seeking therapy.
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LOL, haha. That is funny actually. Here is how I look at it...yeah, the dude did piss me off. A very good friend of mine died and he pretty much pissed on his grave. I asked for an apology and there was none. So I went to war. That war and all that hate consumed a buttload of my time. The dude called, he appologized, so we stopped slamming eachother and I could get back to work on my linklist and building my program. Things that are a lot more important.
My feelings for the guy haven't changed, I don't send him or any of his programs a click. I even exposed all of the programs the guy did own on the boards and that took a little research. However, you I don't expect you to tow the party line just becasue I've had a problem or Greenguy has had a problem.
Lastly, its one thing dislike someone. Its another to waste you time and energy to make them feel that hate. There are things I could be doing that are a lot more productive that flaming on GFY and I needed to get back to those things.
You might want to try it in your personal life some...accentuate the positive and let the negitive sluff off. Don't forgive, don't forget, but don't let it drag you down either...get the albatross off your neck and do stuff the benifits yourself.
That's just my opinion.