Chill buckaroo, nobody here is trying to give you a hard time nor is it likely they banned you. It will be a lot easier to engage a robust dialogue if you ASK for help and maybe even say PLEASE.. since most people believe that being on a banned list is for a good reason but recognize that mistakes do happen. You might be able to get the confusion undone if your NICE. Take JELS's comments seriously too.
Obviously HOES didn't blacklist you but if you want to pursue what they knew and when they knew it try using their dedicated thread:
http://www.greenguysboard.com/board/...ead.php?t=7145
Good Luck