I hear you on the frustration
As I said I co-own a huge directory in its field and I got so frustrated I got someone else to be the reviewer
Sure are lots of spammers and cheaters out there, but this kind of post can be very intimidating for an honest newbie. I sure made lots of mistakes, and I still do, from time to time... you know, I have still to see the link list that doesn't have typos and/or grammar mistakes on it submission site... so much for perfectionism