Dont get frustrated instro. Youre not going to do yourself any good by getting angry. Just take the good info with the bad and keep pushing forward. There are thousands of adult webmasters and each one of them started at the bottom with a handful of pages and even less traffic. Every one of them will probably tell you a different way to make money. You just have to experiment and find your own spot is all. Theres no quick solution, it takes time.
Youre building free sites, you have your own site going, thats a good start. Just keep at it till you find something that works then do the shit out of it till it doesnt work anymore or you can retire
The guys like penisbot and greenguy have put in thousands of hours and have thousands of pages. They built pages that didnt make a dime and pages that made a small fortune Im sure. You just have to keep building, keep experimenting, keep your eyes open for new idea's, and you will do ok.
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