[walrus]

Off the top of my head, I can't think of any blog directories that don't send a message when a link has been submitted or approved. Since I've never had a blog rejected, I cant say as to whether they send rejection e-mails. I know on both my directories, I should be doing all three.

That having been said, I do believe that any link appearing on any of my sites is my responsibility to ensure it is linked to a quality partner and properly reciprocated.