I think theres alot of different ways you can get new affiliates. Some cost money, some are free. Heres a few suggestions
1.) Put your affiliate program in your tagline (obvious one
).
2.) Post in the products and services section of GG & Jim
http://www.greenguysboard.com/board/...isplay.php?f=6
alot of other boards have a spam section too.
3.) Buy advertising spots on adult webmaster boards.
4.) Submit galleries & free sites promoting your paysite(s)
5.) Alot of link lists (link-o-rama, etc...) pretty much list every paysite known to man on their site. Im not sure if they promote all sponsors or just selected ones but maybe Greenguy will get the ball rolling for you.
6.) Offer unique free content for webmasters to use to promote your paysite (I think alot of free site and tgp submitters gobble up new free content from unknown / little known paysites).
7.) There are alot of paysite review sites out there now. Maybe you could get your site reviewed (I believe you need to provide a temporary pass) and listed by a few of them.
Im sure others will offer other idea's too. But I would definately put it in your tagline from now on and participate on the bulletin boards every once in a while.
Good luck with it
WB