My recommendation.
1. Go to boards like you've done here and be very open minded with the learning process. (You seem to be well on your way)
2. Put a link on your webmaster page to your sites. Lela is a hottie but I can't find a link from your webmaster page. I instead put in the url manually.
3. Listen to Toby and every friendly webmaster that offers useful advice.
4. Build up the tour. Lele seems like a hottie but most tours include bios, diaries, photo galleries and a few pages of what a surfer will get if they join (web cams. movies, friends, hardcore, lesbian....) While the tour hints at much more there is nothing that actually makes any commitments. The text is also very hard to read.
5. Think about long term goals. It appears that you are open to suggestions and that you have a very hot product, which are keys to success but still that success is going to take time.