Yea WB, I agree with the others. It will take some time to tweak out a submit list that works for you. I do think your acceptance numbers are going to go up due the recent changes you've already made
As to lists insisting on being with other lists, really look carefully to decide if you think it's reasonable. USUALLY I've found it's very small lists wanting to be listed with the big dogs. Rarely will one of the big dogs insist on such things because they dont' need to. You're on the right track doing what you're doing. Give it some time and you'll get things tweaked best for yourself.
As to Penisbot not having listed your stuff. Again, give it some time...I seem to recall it can take a while to get listed there. It very well may be too early to tell whether your sites didn't make the cut. Actually, I think you can search for the status of your site with their script.
Sponsor content wise...most folks will accept it if the quality is good. Steer clear of vid caps though...a lot of sites hate those since the quality is usually pretty crappy. Also, try to only use content that has either small or no watermarks. HUGE watermarks are one of the things that caused the no sponsor content rules.
All that said, your sites are pretty damn clean. Keep doing what you're doing...you're definitely on the right track
