Hiya Jay
I don't know if this means anything, but I put about 15 category trades in the queue at xxxpornmovielinks.com about 5 days ago and they're not showing as approved yet. I figure you're not just ignoring them if you're asking for trades here again, so maybe they're not showing up on the admin side for you? If that's happening with other people then you may have more trades pending than you realize.
Simon