Another good source of targetted traffic would be BBW "Friends Lists". The type I'm referring to rank links based on incoming hits, as opposed to just a static link/banner page. (
example) not a BBW friends list, but that's the type I'm talkin' about.
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Don't be in too big of a rush to put up an affiliate program. I see far too many independent amateur sites jump the gun on this and their program never fully recovers.
You first need to make sure your site converts, get your tour fine tuned, accumulate some content, and establish yourself as a site that isn't going to disappear tomorrow.
When you do decide to launch an affiliate program, have all your ducks in a row. Have promo content available, hosted galleries, a nice selection of various sized banners, etc. organized in a pass protected webmaster area.
There's alot more to having a successful affiliate program than just putting up a webmaster page with a signup form.
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