Yep, that's something that I worry about too. A few sites have almost two hundred of my freesites waiting for review, but I have no idea if I'm going to get mass rejections or not.
I've sent messages to a couple of Link List owners here on GG&J and received positive responses, but I'll still be worrying until those first sites start getting listed.
One link list had added me to their blacklist by mistake so I lost out on a few months of potential listings from them, but I had no idea because I thought they just had a long review queue. I get listed there regularly now which is great, but if I hadn't sent a message asking if there was a problem.......
