I cannot reply to you in a friendly tone unless I first reproach you for your horrific spelling and grammar. At 2 AM, I should not have to decipher that many incorrect word usages.
There, that's done.
The answer you are seeking, grasshopper, is an obvious one. It is the intentional reciprocal linking strategy of most link lists that is the root cause of your findings. Most hard link trades and garden variety reciprocal links point to the domain's root and/or category pages. You'll see hard link trades on the main page, but nothing compared to the amount of inbound links to the index and category pages.