[redglow]

For your pop issue, you can try this for mail:
iset pop to mail.yourdomain.com if you havent..... allthough you probably have tried that lol, maybe just me that never read the small print and had to try and fail a gazillion times |badidea|

Edit; and for the bw thing... i have ran pretty heavy hitting sites on dreamhost more than once, they also tell us the 2.5 TB bullshit, but even though that's not the real ammount of bw they would ever allow me on one act, i've never had any problems, even with 15K+ hits/day