I figured it out. When I uploaded the first file, it set the end date to 0000-00-00 instead of NULL. So it was reading the files as they shouldn't be open. When I edited it in my admin, poof they all showed up.
Alfredo got back to me and told me I was doing it the correct way, so that really drove me crazy.
Trev, yea, it has a gallery # which doesn't change, then it has an id, which does change. When you update the other table, you have to use the id #, not the gallery #. The id is unique for every instance of every gallery where as the gallery# is the same for each set that is re-used in different sites. My problems all stemmed from the end date, not iputting wrong numbers anywhere.
