I guess my most important was ... hmm.. guess it was sticking by my girlfriend after she got a huge depresion. Waiting for her after she dumbed me due to her illness ( couldt even get out of the bed - nor having a realtionship becouse she felt ulgy in heart, mind and body ). Now a year later she's getting much much better ( getting help ) and she is carrying my first baby. although it was a mistake we decided to keep it and now its a wish child
T - 60 days and counting
