I do try to be around as much as possible. But with my Father and Son taking this so badly, it is very hard. My son is staying with his mother away from some friends that I believe he doesn't need around at this time.
But my father stays in his and my mother's marital home and there is no way he is ready to stay there alone. Part of today is getting rid of anything that showed my mother being sick. Things like medicine, bed pans, wheel chairs and such.
I am going to be here more and more through out the week and let him gradually get used to being alone. He really needs something to do and is afraid to death that he will run out of money. He won't ever run out but he thinks he will so I suggested, getting into the business. He has been programming and doing computer and internet work since 1978. With him being involved in the computer and internet business since then, I think he could do very well.
A lot of people think the internet is fairly new but he was able to access it way back then. There wasn't much but he did have a connection and did work. He also setup all the networks for all the schools in the Utica City School district.
If I can get him to snap out of his depression and get to work, he is going to put us all under the table
His home is already setup with a wireless cable connection and the people that really know me know, I have all the content he could ever use.
So, don't be surprised if one day you see a second Jim Barnett posting on this board