Hang in there, you are strong enough to sort things out, respect!
And listen to Docholly, she is so smart, about women and the wife and your grandma... help her accept her situation and talk to her, just call her if you are so busy at home so she knows you are thinking of her.
I cannot tell you how lonely I am, always alone, not being able to speak, my cancer spreading slowly and getting a lot of radation etc... your caring will help her a lot.
Best of luck.
And great post, Docholly
