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Thanks again you guys. I would love to be there with my grandma and spend every moment with her, but she is having her treatment done in Florida and staying with my uncle who lives down there in the Naples area. I am sure her reasoning being that she doesnt want the whole family having to stop their lives to take care of her, but what she doesnt realize is that is exactly what we want to do. My grandpa died 3 and a half years ago of liver cancer, so it makes this even harder, maybe going thru the same thing he did in the same place would bring back too many bad memories for her. She lives way out in the country on some acreage and since my grandpa died I have been taking care of everything out there for her, and just about everytime I go out there and do anything for her she starts crying thanking me so much. She has a hard time letting people take care of her, and doesnt want to be a burden on everyone, so I guess thats why she is having everything done so far away. I wish so badly that she would come home, just so I could take care of her and so I could do everything for her.
I have actually been feeling kind of guilty over this because since she is gone I cant really be that involved and I have been so caught up and stressed out over the mess with my wife I feel like I havent even had a chance to worry like I should about my grandma.
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