I think a lot of the problem for women is things not being equal in porn. You watch a movie and the guy gets a blowjob for thirty minutes and the girl gets very little oral if any. He always gets off and it seems like in most porn the girl never does.
Now that I look at it all the time the thought of watching a porn movie at night makes me want to puke....
Before I started doing this, the porn I always searched for was kinky stuff. I don't think I'm alone either as I looked at the unusual stuff to get ideas, and maybe see something I hadn't tried yet.
Just my two cents
