Most link lists list paysites with their affiliate link to the site as a form of advertising that falls inline with they way they list free sites and don't actually accept paysite submissions. The best way to get listed by lots of link list owners is to put a link to your affiliate program in your sig and have a bunch of hosted free sites ready for their perusal.
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