Your link is up. Blogroll is fine with me.
<a href="http://sexontheinternet.com/spanking.htm">Spanking</a> at SOTI
or something along those lines.
If you'll send me the url (root is fine) of the sites you submitted I'll check the database. I'm pretty sure I remember seeing some of your sites, but when I search on
http://www.britishspanking.org.uk/ or on your board usernames, all I get are some old sites from back in 2006.