I forgot to add....you can register and add your sites/recips yourself:
http://www.quickrecip.com/?q=User/Register
Please use only ONE recip for your DEFAULT RECIP only because this is the recip that shows up on this page:
http://www.quickrecip.com/?q=LinkList
but other than that, if you have the same recip for blowjob and oral, you can save it to both categories and it will come up under both categories...
Also, you only have to put the rules, keywords, and urls for your site and submit page on the Default Recip only, this is the information that comes up on that linklist page and is only relevant on the DEFAULT RECIP. If you have a default recip only, as in only one reciprocal link, you can save it to all the categories you want at once.