Why do your reviewers continue to accept links with other people's brands in the URL, such as the following:
This
That
Another
Yup, Another
There are more, but the first three are currently marked as new on your anal sex page. You must realize how unethical this is. You cannot complain in one breath about slumping traffic, yet in another, allow submitters to abuse someone else's brand - which is an obvious form of traffic theft.
I think your link exchange idea is an interesting concept, but I can't see myself doing business with your list. If your reviewers are willing to list URLs like that, how do I know that they wouldn't just as easily allow your submitters to steal my traffic?